Tips for Parents

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Students entering middle school are experiencing a tremendous amount of change. Just a few months ago, they had only one or two teachers. Now they may have seven or eight. Their bodies are growing and developing every day. Added to the equation are the hormones and emotions that accompany the physical changes. This all can create the perfect storm for unrest at home and at school. Although they are beginning to look like adults, middle school students still need parental and adult guidance and assistance. Here are a few tips for parents and caregivers as they navigate the middle school years.

- Read over their course syllabi

Parents should read each course syllabus. This will provide you with information about classroom policies, expectations, and will provide a timeline for major projects and assignments.

- Read over their assignment pad

Here at Mid-Carolina Middle School we provide students with an assignment notebook at the beginning of the school year. Parents can read over their students’ homework assignments in the notebook to see that work is being completed in a timely fashion. Stress to your child that if they spend a little of time every day on each class, that will save a great deal of stress and time the night before an assignment is due.

- Check/Help with homework

Although most of us adults may not remember how to do basic algebra equations, taking interest in your child’s studies show that you care about their success. Your willingness to take time out of your day to read through their assignments and homework will go a long ways in their respect for you and their school work. Who knows, you might actually surprise yourself with how much you remember.

- Help designate a study time or place

Work with your student to pick a time and place where school work should be completed each day outside of school. If the student does not have a specific homework assignment for that night, a great idea is for them to read for at least 30 minutes; keeps that brain jogging. Study areas should be as free from distractions as possible and should have available a study survival kit.

- Create a study survival kit

This kit should contain pens, pencils, scissors, and any other supplies necessary for completing basic assignments. Having all of these materials in one place will keep students from wasting time looking for them or giving themselves and you an excuse for not finishing their work.

- Communicate, communicate, communicate

Communicate with your student’s teachers by phone or email. Introduce yourself to them at open house. Let them know it is ok to contact you if they ever have a question or concern. This assures everyone that we’re all on the same team. Also communicate clearly with your middle school student. Although they are growing up and peer relationships take a higher priority than family relationships, it is important the child knows that you are available to talk to them and listen intently when they need it.

*Studies have shown that children have greater academic achievement when their parents are involved in their education. Motivation, positive attitudes about self and sense of control over their environment improve with parental involvement in the schools. You, the parents, are the most important resource for the school counselor and others. Your involvement is critical in helping your child to be successful. Ask the counselor if you want to know more about being involved in what is happening with your child’s education*
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